I am a Christian woman married to a Christian man. We are deeply in love and have been married for coming on 15 years. For the past 3 years we have been exploring male chastity and all the fun that can come along with it. I SERVE my husband by caging his desires. This blog is a consortium of thoughts, challenges, and experiences we have had along the way.



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  1. Thank you very much for your post, and especially your candor. My husband approached me about chastity close to a year ago and it’s been an off and on battle. We too are Christian, so when you shared your struggles, I felt as though you we speaking what was in my head. I appreciate so much the fact that you shared the scripture that you did as well as the SERVE perspective. That has been a significant struggle for me… Perhaps until now. I just wanted to write to say thank you. Also thank you for the option to comment with the security of remaining anonymous.
    With Blessings


    1. You are very welcome and thank you for your kind comment. We have been enjoying getting to know each other better through chastity for a little over 3 years now. I can appreciate that it can get a little frustrating for the both of us however you stated that it has been a battle. I hope the battle has been with satan and not your husband. This should be a blessing for your marriage and in your own sexual growth and not simply relenting to your husband. If you are not growing together, change directions :). Remember girl, you are the Dom, own it, love it, and SERVE your husband through it.
      My struggles as I have said before come from not simply going with the flow. My husband has been so patient with me (thankfully). I always think I know what I want and what is no good, you know “not my thing” but he will simply patiently say “Let’s try it, it doesn’t have to be forever” and I will fight it and fight it saying “I don’t like it” without even really trying. What I am really doing is listening to my upbringing of shame and to satan’s lies. Time and again, simply going with the flow and SERVING my husband has brought new things to our treasure box. Sometimes I wonder if couples who seem great then the kids leave and the couple finds there is no more fizzle between them comes from people being “stuck” with being “happy” where they are. Let’s be willing to walk new paths and get a little crazy once in a while! Anyways this is more than should be in a comment, maybe I will make a post on this when I have a chance.
      With God’s love.


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